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I wouldn't have it any other way.

Kingfisher started following Designer

25 March 2013

Kingfisher posted

17 February 2013

Swimmingly.

Well. It's been a while since my last post... and since i try and use this as a place to reflect on how this relationship is going, I see no time like the present.  She came home this past weekend as a sort of early Valentine's deal. It was cute, really... we went on a legitimate date, came home, did couple things... it was nice. The weekend was distinctly lacking in the sexual department, though... but I'm certainly not going to fault anyone for that. She had a UTI, so who can blame her for turning down sex? She still took care of me (which I very much appreciated)... but that's so... Read more...
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  • whimsyofemily Wait and see, it'll happen or it won't and the more you pressure her, the worse it'll be. Anyone who cared in your shoes would be concerned but sometimes everyone gets tired or irritable. I would also suggest investing in some condoms, preferably non-latex as those will be hypoallergenic. Be sure to pick up some lubricant as it has been shown to increase sexual pleasure for both parties and reduces the chance for chaffing. Good luck!

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    StealthSeductress HMMM...UTI? Young healthy women get UTI's from bacteria rising into the urethra. The most common way to get this type of infection is to have have rough sex and not pee afterwards. So she is a college girl and you only see her when one is willing to travel three hours. Both of you have made a stance against casual sex, but what you are doing, isn't it sex? I mean just because a and b are not connecting a and c and b and s are...I think you have had your share of flings and realize the real true depth and beauty lie in when you are able to be completely open and honest and free that is where true intimacy resides. I hope this is not your girl, but be aware, many smart seductive insecure girls are unusually manipulative and who knows if she is indulging in her dark sexual side with someone else and playing the good girl with you. And if she is not doing this then it sounds like you have an opportunity to have some fun because she may be testing your sincerity. Take her on a ride on your kinky side and stop being such a prude. Next time she starts complaining that you only want her for sex blah blah blah. Bend her over and Introduce her to Sir Kingfisher: A few good slaps on the bottom and tell the little girl to stop acting up! Tell her if she doesn't staighten up and stop questioning your devotion, then she will be grounded. A little kink and a little humor, good combo...In my humble opinion, but not for everyone.

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    joyhenrry ( joyhenrry@yahoo.com ) hello, It is my pleasure to contact you after viewing your profile at which really interest me to have communication with you I will be very happy if you can write me through my email for easiest communication and to know everything about each other and for us to exchange pictures,here is my email (joyhenrry@yahoo.com) i will be waiting to hear from you soon. Yours Joy.

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04 February 2013
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