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Romantic love is a flame that builds up and dies down, it jumps and twists and can flare up when least expected. You're not stupid or an asshole for feeling an emotion for a girl. That's what romantic love does. You're stupid and an asshole when you don't realize that the new flame isn't as special as the True Love you built over time with your girlfriend. Or your stupid and an asshole for trying to have both at the same time. It doesn't sound like you are doing either of those things. Whatever choice you make, don't look back.
Maybe hes jealous it was another guy and not him.
Thin Walls & Loud Sex
I think you haven't been honest with yourself about the situation. In one sentence you talk about it being meant for eternity and then the next sentence you saying how it started as an affair. I think she was a woman that made you feel amazing and special, but that doesn't mean she was and is the only one that can make you feel that way. People want to give you hope and I don't want to steal that from you but I think you have to start protecting yourself a little. Start putting up a little bit of a wall between her and your heart. What can that hurt? If was meant to be she will come back. But you have to let her go either way. If she was truly in an abusive relationship, that isn't something you can't come away with undamaged. She may have a lot of issues to work out. Someone mentioned the pornography perhaps reminded her of past trauma. Well of course it did. But that doesn't mean you did anything wrong. I hope it works out, but encase it never does I think you need to protect yourself. Start preparing to move on. And I think you are taking way too much responsibility for this. It was a little bit of pornography. If she can't love all of you, faults and all, and be able to talk through it with you, then that's not an eternity kind of thing.
I Lost the Love of my Lifetime over a few pornography searches on my phone
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