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lostforever added a positive impression

10 February 2013

Morally strong

lostforever added a negative impression

07 February 2013

Feminine

lostforever on her relationship with The Narcisstic

07 February 2013

Is a gut instinct always right?

I admit, I am a pretty paranoid person, so it's hard for me to trust people. However, this paranoia comes from my gut instinct about people, and usually it's right. While I was on Facebook, a friend of mine posted up a picture of her face with the face of my boyfriend photoshopped onto it. I've told him not to talk to her because it bothers me. My initial reaction was to freak out and get pissed off.  I told him to tell her to take the picture of and never talk to her again. He said that he wasn't flirting with her, but I don't believe it. I'm not stupid. I know what he was doing, even i... Read more...
  • FindYourPlusOne.com Unfortunately, men are wired differently than women. They do not tend to see some things as threatening or hurtful, the was a woman does. If your feelings were hurt, it would be better to go to your friend and ask her why she did it and let her know that it makes you uncomfortable. It is somewhat unfair to punish him for something she did. Have an honest talk with her and tell her that the way they act together concerns you. If she is a good friend, she will back off and apologize. If she is trying to be more than just friends with him, you will know, too. Actions speak louder than words. Your boyfriend may not see your friend as anything but a friend. But if you think he is acting inappropriately, you should let him know. He isn't responsible for someone posting a picture of him on Facebook. He is responsible for how he acts towards this person. If he is flirting, leading her on or making her think there is a chance to be with him - call him out on it. Instincts are a powerful indicator to guide us in the right direction. Pay more attention but try not to accuse him out of fear. Trust your instincts but make sure you have your facts straight. If you think she is a threat - she may be to you but not to him. Start with her first and see how that goes. Good luck with your Plus One!

  • lostforever Nope. It was something that he did, and he was flirting.

  • FindYourPlusOne.com Your post stated "While I was on Facebook, a friend of mine posted up a picture of her face with the face of my boyfriend photoshopped onto it. " You never quite stated that he was the one that created the picture. If he was flirting and you are uncomfortable with his behavior, you deserve better. Good luck!

lostforever started following Ella

04 February 2013
Ella

Ella

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In a Relationship

lostforever added a negative impression

04 February 2013

I don't see a future with them

Too arrogant

Lack of focus on me

Has a weird habit

Sexual incompatibility

Incompatible intellect (too smart)

I don't "get" them

Incompatible backgrounds

Doesn't speak my language very well

We don't communicate well

Doesn't make me feel attractive

Finishes sex too quickly

Doesn't make enough time for me

lostforever added a positive impression

04 February 2013

Loyal

Honest

Cheerful

Avoids unnecessary conflict

Rational

Easy-going

Positive

Fun to be with

Spontaneous

Is in a similar stage of life to me

Generous in bed

Is considerate in bed

Attractive

Considerate

Makes an effort to see me often

Confident

Has clear life goals

Cultured

Educated

Intelligent

Creative

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