lostforever on her relationship with The Narcisstic
07 February 2013Is a gut instinct always right?
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FindYourPlusOne.com Unfortunately, men are wired differently than women. They do not tend to see some things as threatening or hurtful, the was a woman does. If your feelings were hurt, it would be better to go to your friend and ask her why she did it and let her know that it makes you uncomfortable. It is somewhat unfair to punish him for something she did. Have an honest talk with her and tell her that the way they act together concerns you. If she is a good friend, she will back off and apologize. If she is trying to be more than just friends with him, you will know, too. Actions speak louder than words. Your boyfriend may not see your friend as anything but a friend. But if you think he is acting inappropriately, you should let him know. He isn't responsible for someone posting a picture of him on Facebook. He is responsible for how he acts towards this person. If he is flirting, leading her on or making her think there is a chance to be with him - call him out on it. Instincts are a powerful indicator to guide us in the right direction. Pay more attention but try not to accuse him out of fear. Trust your instincts but make sure you have your facts straight. If you think she is a threat - she may be to you but not to him. Start with her first and see how that goes. Good luck with your Plus One!
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lostforever Nope. It was something that he did, and he was flirting.
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FindYourPlusOne.com Your post stated "While I was on Facebook, a friend of mine posted up a picture of her face with the face of my boyfriend photoshopped onto it. " You never quite stated that he was the one that created the picture. If he was flirting and you are uncomfortable with his behavior, you deserve better. Good luck!
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lostforever started following Ella
04 February 2013Ella
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- In a Relationship
lostforever added a negative impression
04 February 2013I don't see a future with them
Too arrogant
Lack of focus on me
Has a weird habit
Sexual incompatibility
Incompatible intellect (too smart)
I don't "get" them
Incompatible backgrounds
Doesn't speak my language very well
We don't communicate well
Doesn't make me feel attractive
Finishes sex too quickly
Doesn't make enough time for me
lostforever added a positive impression
04 February 2013Loyal
Honest
Cheerful
Avoids unnecessary conflict
Rational
Easy-going
Positive
Fun to be with
Spontaneous
Is in a similar stage of life to me
Generous in bed
Is considerate in bed
Attractive
Considerate
Makes an effort to see me often
Confident
Has clear life goals
Cultured
Educated
Intelligent
Creative
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