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When I see "complicated" as a person's relationship status, I think, Oh, they must be in something they want to leave, but can't for one reason or another. It's usually a financial (they have no $ to split up, or they have a lot of $ and don't want to part with it if they leave) or familial (kids, partner's health) problem that keeps them obligated to the other person. I think they should add "Stuck" as a relationship status....that'd clear up so much!
Is it really all that complicated...
Petal, we've all been where you're at. Me, just recently, and I wish I had ended it long before it led to where it has. He avoids conversation because he's only with you for the sex, and you know that. You're trying to get approval from someone who will never give it to you. Now do the right thing, for yourself, and let go of this relationship. Who cares if it breaks his heart...do you think he cares that your heart is breaking?
He is cheating on her with me. Am I asking for bad karma??
Oh yes I do...for most of my childhood, my mother was "unavailable"...she had 4 other kids and her own emotional issues. I found myself craving attention from men who were unavailable as well. Even though these situations hurt us, it's what is familiar to us, and what we believe love should feel like. I'm happy to say, my awareness and knowledge of this pattern is helping me to me avoid playing out that same painful scenario in current relationships.
Why do I always end up dating the wrong people? : Patterns and relationships
Valerie on Relationship Deal Breakers11 November 2012
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