rolyt The yes/no does not have the right context. You were right to do what you did because there is no point is dragging out the relationship when it's one sided. Sound like you tried, but in the end you can only try so much. Short term pain for long term gain

WotWentWrong Blog Welcome to WotWentWrong @Little Miss! We look forward to living vicariously through your dating life!

Little Miss. pretty together? yeah, that's so much easier said than done, but I am definitely learning, growing and moving to the future. Everything does happen for a reason and sometimes we need people to remind us of that. Thank you! :)

Amy M. Im sorry about that @Little Miss, its for the best that it happened now than later.

Little Miss. You would be shocked at how many people say that. I know you are right.

Valerie Oh yes I do...for most of my childhood, my mother was "unavailable"...she had 4 other kids and her own emotional issues. I found myself craving attention from men who were unavailable as well. Even though these situations hurt us, it's what is familiar to us, and what we believe love should feel like. I'm happy to say, my awareness and knowledge of this pattern is helping me to me avoid playing out that same painful scenario in current relationships.

Dreamerella I definitely believe that our past can have an influence on how we interact with our others in any kind of relationship. Growing up with a lot of insecurities and a lack of a father figure, I would seek validation for how worthy I was from men. I also seemed to be attracted to the tormented souls - like part of me wanted to save them - as if that too was some kind of validation that I was special to someone. It's important to be aware of our issues and work on them in order to find a healthy relationship.

Petal I totally relate. Also brought up by an unavailable mother, my feelings, doubts and concerns as a child never respected, always craved the attention of men, using my sexuality as an exchange currency for affection. The outcome was even worse, no man respects a woman that's easily led to bed. The nice guys that have been in love with me were always treated poorly, always ending heartbroken. I've been working on these issues in different ways and I've reached their origins, the blocks that don't allow my life to smoothly move forward. Now is the time to untie the knots and have the strength to say NO next time I'm confronted with an old pattern.

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