Dreamerella Just a thought - but how much of the vegan lifestyle do you know about and would be willing to compromise?? I'm sure this girl is a lot of what you think you want, but maybe this was a blessing in disguise. This event could also be a lesson on being less attached to object in your life.

rolyt Ouch. You blew it - if you really like her the go for an apology. If she says no, then move on.

Joe This has nothing to do with how much you love your car, it has to do with your denial of responsibility. As driver of the car you should check if the park is legitimate not your passengers. This situation will be hard to salvage because you showed her your true colours, that of a coward. Yeah you were upset and the though of your baby getting scratched was too much to bear so what does that say about you in a pressure situation? She would be thinking you react irrationally whenever things go bad (this wasn't even that bad) and ultimately, that isn't a desirable trait in a partner.

BeenThruALot That was fucked up if I was her, I wouldn't wanna talk to you. (But you if u commit to not being a jerk and give her a very elaborate apology she might go on a second date with ur self center ass)

ninal you were a total jerk, but for better or worse, we women respond well to genuine sincerity....meet with her in person, and tell her how ridiculous you were, and that it will never happen again. If this was reversed, I think a man would write her off immediately, but I think you still stand a chance. Maybe it's time to consider a bike.

WotWentWrong Blog Sounds like a promising start! Good luck! Looking forward to hearing all the details! Maybe you should create a relationship here and start recording everything about it so we can follow along!

Valerie I tell myself that everyday...Val...he doesn't want to be with you...I will meet a man who does...it's on its way.

Travelling Girl Little Miss that's fantastic! So glad the date went well. Three things that you mentioned that he did are also winners for me: putting his hand on the small of your back (I don't think guys really understand the NLP power of this), paying for dinner while you're in the bathroom (thus avoiding the awkward reach for the wallet scenario) and texting you straight after he left you. +3 points! I also think that him not kissing you on the first date actually means he likes you enough to want to take things slowly +2 more points!

Little Miss. Thanks T-Girl, He's at +5 That's awesome. Can't wait for the next date

Dreamerella This guy sounds really great. I can't wait to hear how things progress with him. :) I really like the fact that you've known this guy for a while so it's like he was a friend first which I think is a great foundation for developing a romantic relationship. And I agree with Travelling Girl on the points system. :)

sg2 It's ok if you don't feel comfortable dating the guy. He's seems pretty aggressive too, seeing that you've already told him bluntly you're not interested in dating him, and he still pursues it. If he can't stand just being a friend, I'd just ignore it and move on.

Ella This is the worst situation but if you really liked him you would love the attention he is giving you. I had a friend who was like my twin. He would talk about how we were going to move in together and we even named our fake kids. That was fine to me because he knew we were just friends. But then any chance he would have to be close to me or hold my hand he would. One time he bought me this really cool gift and I was so excited I hugged him real tight and gave him a kiss on the cheek so the next time he bought me something he expected a full on makeout session and seemed pouty when I denied it. It just ruined every good moment we had. And it got to be real annoying. The best thing for the both of us was to stop being friends. I would tell him that you can't hang out with him as friends either because you don't want to lead him on.

JP70 you are scared of finally been able to settle down, this guys may be in love with you, maybe controlling yes but probably because he is desperate to settle down or thinks that saying those things to you you will feel at ease, don't decide until you ca find out how sincere he is, give him a chance and tell him you want to go slow and if he can stop talking like that you will be able to enjoy his company a little more. good Luck.

Rissa Bee Ughh this sounds like a nightmare! Good luck in the future with your dating situation

GonRios totalmente terrorifico jajajaja

beddy ke mathata.ha haha it means its a problem in english

beddy gal dat was real bad i know da feeling.