Valerie When I see "complicated" as a person's relationship status, I think, Oh, they must be in something they want to leave, but can't for one reason or another. It's usually a financial (they have no $ to split up, or they have a lot of $ and don't want to part with it if they leave) or familial (kids, partner's health) problem that keeps them obligated to the other person. I think they should add "Stuck" as a relationship status....that'd clear up so much!

Venus I agree Valerie. Complicated means they are feeling stuck. Time to stop procrastinating and make an actual decision so they can move on in their life. Alot of people get stuck in a rut, because of laziness, lack of money, not wanting to hurt other people etc, but the most important person is always you. If you are not happy it is time to find out why. And the question to ask is: What do you want in your life? How do I want my life to be? Other people can take care of themselves, that is their destiny and their journey. If someone is not happy in some part of their life, they need to figure out what will make them happy and then take action. ACTION is the most important. Positive affirmations are good but action is what is required. 'Complicated status' means 'I have got stuff going on right now and my life is complicated'. They need to uncomplicate their life, which is similar to throwing out old and used possessions, which are no longer necessary in your life right now. Freeing up the space, in your wardrobe and your mind, will attract more of the right energy (vibrations) and will get you what you really desire, but have been too scared to ask for previously. Love and light.x

Rubinsh Cool!

Oblivia Great post Rissa Bee! Good for you for recognizing that jealousy arrives from inside and has nothing to do with the objective facts. Remember that all the good you want for others AND yourself doesn't come from a share of finite pie. Stay strong!

Rissa Bee @oblivia you are right all that envy comes from inside and it only hurts oneself. I've had to figure out that it holds me back from truely being happy for myself and others and that is no good :)

Dreamerella I have totally been in your situation. It was so heart-breaking to see all these FB feeds of people being happily married, happily engaged or happily pregnant couples so soon after a major break-up with someone I thought I had a future with. Instead of focusing on others, we just have to focus on ourselves in being the best we can be. Make new friends and hang out with people who don't remind you of what you don't have - people who will make you feel happy to be single again.

Rissa Bee Dreamerella it hurts doesn't it? I had to take a look at all that I do have and appreciate them more

Rubinsh So why are you not giving it another chance?

simplicity we both dont believe it will work, jst the physical chemistry is doesnt go away

Manoj do whatever that you enjoy.......

Gady le cool!

whitecosmos Communication with the person you are dating might be nice, so that at least they know.

Ella If you don't think there is nothing wrong with dating more than one person then you should be okay with letting your other dates know. I do not think it should be a first date conversation but if you are steadily dating someone and you're choosing to date other people still then do not lead them on. Females tend to think of exclusiveness right away. And men think its impossible for us to want to date more than one guy. Dating is supposed to be fun and a way of finding that person you want to be committed too.