joyhenrry ( joyhenrry@yahoo.com ) hello, It is my pleasure to contact you after viewing your profile at which really interest me to have communication with you I will be very happy if you can write me through my email for easiest communication and to know everything about each other and for us to exchange pictures,here is my email (joyhenrry@yahoo.com) i will be waiting to hear from you soon. Yours Joy.

Sooverit Uhm so your FWB is not only using you for sex, but he's trying to control you and he's manipulative. To answer your ?'s yes you guys should break it off now because it doesn't seem like "you" are happy with what you're getting. He is just telling you he wants to only have sex with you exclusively, too control you via sex, unfortunately you are his "sure thing" and not in a good way :(. If he makes it seem like he wants to only have sex with you then you think your special, just playing mind games with you, if he really wanted you he would make a commitment. And lastly, he probably does have someone else on the side, I mean you only know what he's telling you, I wouldn't be surprised if you aren't the only one...again you should just cut your losses and take this as a lesson learned, you deserve better.

lostforever a commitment like making it known that he's with me or like a life long commitment sort of commitment? @_@

Sooverit More like making it known that you two are officially together...

Kingfisher If I'm being perfectly honest, this doesn't sound like the healthiest of relationships. He sounds bitter and vindictive (among other things) and those two alone are a terrible combination. It seems like he's trying to play games that he isn't really all that good at (I had all these girls lined up, so you better claim me quick. Oh, wait. All those girls "fell through." Mmhmm. Riiiiiiiiight. Sure they did.) You might have a strong desire to be with him, but you should definitely be considering yourself, first. What's the point of relationship if it's not to make you happy, satisfied, and help you develop as a human being? It doesn't sound like he's doing any of these things. TL;DR He's what you want, but maybe not what you need.

Mr. Good First, figure out what you want. That is the most important thing. Then you can figure out if the two of you are on the same page. Flirting in front of you, telling you about all the girls already lined up, speaking about ex girlfriends negatively all sound like a bad start. You have your emotions already involved so this one is not easy. You have to think with your head and heart. You should look into the book, "How Can I Find A Good Man: 50 Things to Always Remember About Relationships, Dating, and Intimacy."

Travelling Girl Update please!

joyhenrry ( joyhenrry@yahoo.com ) hello, It is my pleasure to contact you after viewing your profile at which really interest me to have communication with you I will be very happy if you can write me through my email for easiest communication and to know everything about each other and for us to exchange pictures,here is my email (joyhenrry@yahoo.com) i will be waiting to hear from you soon. Yours Joy.

Rubinsh Sometimes we just can't help ourselves. You just need to make a decision - do you want to give it a real shot or not? Sounds to me like you already know it doesn't have potential. So just make a clear cut and stop seeing him. The fact that you are having sex doesn't really means something, it just means you are human and that you currently don't have anything better on the table...

Kathryn if you think he es unumbitious and if you never see him like your boyfriend, why going to bed with him makes you so uspet?!This does not prevent you to meet other persons so you need just the time to find the right person..