Dreamerella She's the dummy for liking the guy who's in a relationship and you're the asshole who should stop fucking with this sweet girl's feelings!!!! She deserves better - someone who's emotionally available and able to give her all the love and attention she deserves. Back the fuck off or MAN UP and break it off with your current girlfriend if you feel soooo freaking attracted to this other person!!! Perhaps this girl fulfills an emotional void - something you lack in your current relationship? You really need to examine what's really going on in your current relationship in order to fix it or to throw it away. Some words of wisdom from my beloved Johnny Depp: "If you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second.”

Carolina First, sorry for my english... Well, man, you doesn't deserve and doesn't love your girlfriend. Probably, what you feel for the new girl is the ilussion for the new, but, if you go behind the first girl cross in your eyes is so sad for she (girlfriend)... In the other hand, the new girl obviosly doesn't know the meaning of word "respect", cause you doesn't available. There something call KARMA. Remember it!

dummy123 The "Back the fuck off" option. I'm trying to be a better guy, I've been staying away from the second girl, And things are going better with my GF....but I keep thinking about that second girl. Its crazy. We wouldn't even be a good match, and I'm such a good match with my GF. And this is super shallow but my GF is super hot, way more than this other girl, but I am so damn attracted to her , its not even a sex thing I just want to kiss and hold her, to talk to her, I just keep thinking of her and I have to keep talking myself out of trying to find reasons to drop her a line. I think it must just be the excitement, the thrill of getting to know someone new, the roller-coaster of what will she say, what will I say, what will she like, what will she hate, and the passion of wanting her and her wanting me. But the longer its been since I've seen her seems to make it easier. I'm going to continue to keep away and invest more time and attention to my GF. I hope I can get my head back to normal, my GF and I our lives/freinds/family are so entwined It would be life changing to split up, especially since I lucked into being in a relationship with her in the first place, (long story but basically I didn't intend for us to be a big relationship - originally I thought it would just be good to date someone that summer and she seemed interested - little did I know that we would have so much in common, and that she'd turn into such a fox) prior to that all the relationships I had with girls who I thought would be great for long term relationships rapidly turned into disasters. Point being that I have a gut feeling that I want to run off with this second girl, but I think all my Gut feelings in the past proved to be stupid, and in this situation in particular it would be so stupid. I'm just like all those idiot mid life crisis guys looking to find more meaning and thrill in life, through some crazy quick fix. It's getting better, more time apart = less temptation = less dummy ideas

Lewis Heidegger Romantic love is a flame that builds up and dies down, it jumps and twists and can flare up when least expected. You're not stupid or an asshole for feeling an emotion for a girl. That's what romantic love does. You're stupid and an asshole when you don't realize that the new flame isn't as special as the True Love you built over time with your girlfriend. Or your stupid and an asshole for trying to have both at the same time. It doesn't sound like you are doing either of those things. Whatever choice you make, don't look back.