"Why do I always end up dating the wrong people?"
Patterns, they emerge on and on in relationships. Why is it?
What I've come up to is that every single relationship I have been into, faces a difficult stage just at the very moment I'm not able to keep some complaints for myself. The details on the complaints may vary, but what's common to all of them is a claim of recognition, the usual underlying discourse is this:
"Hey, since you are my girlfriend you should be able to do this or that for me in order to demonstrate you care".
I'm trying to discover the origin of this pattern. After reviewing some info about psychology here and there, I can tell that this kind of stuff is deeply rooted to our childhood and the way we learned to relate with people during the first years of our lives. In my case , I consider it has to do with the kind of upbringing my parents provided for me....Freudian indeed: mom was not that close.
Anyway, what do you think? Have you noticed some patterns of your own?