Last week I went out on a date with this girl once and we both really enjoyed it. The next day we went out for a couple of drinks and then later that night she came back over to my place. Everything was going well.Being the nice guy I am and not wanting to rush anything because I really seem to like her, I didn't try anything. We just cuddled and kissed and that's it. So after that we saw each other again two days later but she didn't stay with me. Her close friends tell me she is into me but lately I don't know if the spark has faded or I'm just overly thinking the situation.
I haven't seen her in a week (due to conflicting work schedules) and she hasn't been as responsive to my text as she was before. So I decided to back off for the last 2 days because I'm the one always initiating conversation and I don't want to seem like I am being too desperate to be with her.
I'm not really sure where to go from here. Should I keep texting her even if it's just a random "hey"? She's already invited me out on a date with her for a party at the end of next month so I'm thinking she is still interested.
Am I thinking too far into this? I'm just that type of person that when I like someone and they like me that's all I want to be with. I just hate the little games that go along with dating!
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The games will always be there. Don't over analyze. Judge by ones actions. She invited you out, so she obviously likes to spend time with you.
Don't over think this.. and remember: Girls get away from boys that are too interested.. ;)
You should have explained why you are different from the others in being ok with just cuddling, but that you are still very attracted to her. She may have been confused by your being a gentlemen. Sounds stupid, but maybe it's appropriate to the situation.
You should have explained why you are different from the others in being ok with just cuddling, but that you are still very attracted to her. She may have been confused by your being a gentlemen. Sounds stupid, but maybe it's appropriate to the situation.