whimsyofemily Years ago I was woken by a phone call from a guy telling me he was breaking up with me when he knew that I had to be up early for work the next morning. I was absolutely furious. As if that wasn't bad enough, a few months ago, some 5 years after that break up, he looked me up online, discovered where I worked, called my place of employment, and asked for me to "apologize" for his behavior. He set a precedent for selfish jerk behavior that will be hard to outdo.

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whimsyofemily Wait and see, it'll happen or it won't and the more you pressure her, the worse it'll be. Anyone who cared in your shoes would be concerned but sometimes everyone gets tired or irritable. I would also suggest investing in some condoms, preferably non-latex as those will be hypoallergenic. Be sure to pick up some lubricant as it has been shown to increase sexual pleasure for both parties and reduces the chance for chaffing. Good luck!

StealthSeductress HMMM...UTI? Young healthy women get UTI's from bacteria rising into the urethra. The most common way to get this type of infection is to have have rough sex and not pee afterwards. So she is a college girl and you only see her when one is willing to travel three hours. Both of you have made a stance against casual sex, but what you are doing, isn't it sex? I mean just because a and b are not connecting a and c and b and s are...I think you have had your share of flings and realize the real true depth and beauty lie in when you are able to be completely open and honest and free that is where true intimacy resides. I hope this is not your girl, but be aware, many smart seductive insecure girls are unusually manipulative and who knows if she is indulging in her dark sexual side with someone else and playing the good girl with you. And if she is not doing this then it sounds like you have an opportunity to have some fun because she may be testing your sincerity. Take her on a ride on your kinky side and stop being such a prude. Next time she starts complaining that you only want her for sex blah blah blah. Bend her over and Introduce her to Sir Kingfisher: A few good slaps on the bottom and tell the little girl to stop acting up! Tell her if she doesn't staighten up and stop questioning your devotion, then she will be grounded. A little kink and a little humor, good combo...In my humble opinion, but not for everyone.

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