StealthSeductress Seriously??? He is such a manipulating player and you are buying everything he says. So many woman need validation so bad that they get sucked into a game of hide and seek. What is so wrong with you that you don't deserve a man who loves only you? What is so wrong with you that you openly admit how pathetic your being? He doesn't love you, he loves the power he has over you. Go ahead and give him an ultimatum, guys just love and ultimatum. I will bet he will say anything he needs to say to string you a long. Don't think you're the only one and will ever be the only one. Think of yourself as a snicker's bar. It tastes good and it fills you up. When you are really hungry you know it will tide you over longer than a piece of hard candy. See the other girls as a piece of hard candy. They are pretty and colorful and taste really good too, but after awhile you just want to go back to the snickers bar. Unfortunealty for you, players are like sugar addicts. and they see you nothing more that a type of variety to satisfy their taste buds. Do you want to be candy or someone's full course meal and dessert. I guess it boils down to how you see yourself. Personally, your dedication and devotion factor hints that you are more of the full course meal type of girl, so why are you settling on being someone's snack?

Rissa Bee Love this post, no I've never gotten anyone saying anything to me. Just the i heard you nasty looks. The worst is when someone walks in on you cringe

Syo Glad I don't live near you!

virtuoso soo funny. you go girl:) Just a bit jealous

Lewis Heidegger Maybe hes jealous it was another guy and not him.

Gady le I like being single :)

Mr. Good There are times when the one you are the most attracted to becomes one of your better relationships. Sometimes you end up feeling as though you should have listened to your original instincts. If you are too picky waiting for the perfect dude, you may never connect with a the right guy.

StealthSeductress If you truly hate drama then why are you creating it by being mad that a guy deleted HIS facebook? Did he put a ring on your finger? Did he profess his love and tell you, you were the one? So why are you taking it so personally. Maybe you made more out of this so-called friendship then he did. I think this reaction is indicative of you being mad that you are not as important to him as he is to you. Your ego is shattered. Get over it because all that is happening is drama in your mind and you hate drama right? Dating is totally weird, but if you are going to do the online thing, first realize that when a guy sends you a message he is not only messaging you. My advice is never take online dating too seriously and have fun. You're first instincts and impressions are important, so pay attention if you get that little icky feeling and move on. And a bit of advice, daters can instinctually can tell when is desperate for a relationship. The desperate send out and unconscious SOS and can come off pushy and needy without even realizing it. Don't be one of these people by being so serious. Who really cares if some random guy deleted his facebook, or some random guy didn't call you after the first date or some random guy is calling too much. Be cool if you want cool.

KR88 You're so right guys! Thank you for your comments. Yeah, somebody told me that perfect guys don't exist, but there's always one guy that is perfect for you. So, I'm trying not to be picky! Exactly, I'll be cool because that's what I want. I'll follow your advice guys, thanks a lot!

Jonesa d. Well actually if you love each other nothing is a hindrance but considering the people around you, your relatives, Parents im sure they are against it.. Maybe take some time to think. Its a very big decision to make.

goodBoy yup im hinking what will her parents will think but for my parents its ok, i really love her :( but we have same surname

goodBoy yup im hinking what will her parents will think but for my parents its ok, i really love her :( but we have same surname

Jonesa d. That's quite hard. But the decision is either up to her or up to you. If u make a decision just be sure its the best for you both :)

honeysuckle minsan aminin man natin o hindi may kakulangan din tayo..pero hindi eto sukatan kung ang relasyon mo sa bf mo ay matibay..ang lalaki hindi talaga nakukuntento kung anong meron lang sya..sa una lang sila masarap magmahal pero kapag may nakita na silang bago makikipag relasyon agad sila na hindi muna nila tinatapos sa una niyang ka relasyon..

lara be sure to ask him if his really single or his just making fun out of you because of his boredom. It happened to me my bf had a relation with someone he met on FB and the rest is history....