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Trust, Honesty , Respect and change -or just some random stuff Shutterstock_53662324 I have spent alot of time reading books on people and relationships trying to figure out why mine seem to go to $hit.  I think I must have "cheat on me" written on my forehead.  Or maybe it's that they don't trust me and figure they may as well cheat before I do.  I'm a very friendly person and have both male and female friends and I think m... Read more...

Why do you think people so often cheat or are cheated on.

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How important is your dating resume? Shutterstock_80622148 A new love interest of a friend of mine recently made the following statement to her, "Given your age, I would have expected your longest relationship to have been longer than 2 years." So, in guy words the real question that is swimming around his head is, "What is wrong with this woman if she is still single but hasn't spent most of th... Read more...

How important is your dating resume?

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    Nino M. If you have always dreamed of seeing the world, but can’t seem to find anybody to travel with you, you can look into globogirls.com and get yourself a travel companion at the destination that you plan on going to instead. Everybody loves meeting new people, so you should find comfort in knowing that whatever is attracting you to exotic people will be the exact same reasons that they will become attracted to you in the end. so I checked globogirls.com and I liked it really, whatever your interests, you'll find a potential partner with the same ones ;)

Is there a chance for us? Shutterstock_3350349  I met a very cute guy online and we talked last week. The next day we went out on a first date. We went to the beach and had really good conversation together. Then he took me back to his apartment that night. He was laying on the bed and asked if I wanted to lay with him. Anyway, I did and things got heated up pretty quickly. We started ma... Read more...
eunice asked:

Is there a chance for us?

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    Martina C. Hi Eunice, You did series of wrong moves :-)! A quick, little advice - when you do something "agressive" on a first date, don't try to fix it by giving the guy more attention - just step away and see what he does. That's the only way to "fix" it. Otherwise you'll just appear needy and insecure. Same now - step away and see what he does (he probably won't contact you anymore, not because of the hand job, but because of you trying to fix things afterwards). Sorry for brutal honesty - hope it helps you for the next time!

  • eunice Well, thanks for your advice. It's been almost two weeks now and he hasn't contacted me. I know I appeared to desperate then and probably he is only into sex anyway. Im glad that I didn't do anything more that make me more regret later. I guess I m just having tendency about moving fast in a relationship when I m really interested in them. I will try to make sure that didn't happen next time. I try to have respect for myself and dignity about that.

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    Pratap If you ant one night stand then only go with him

  • eunice Well, What do you mean by that?? I have been trying to contact him but he didn't contact me at all. Of course I can safely assumed that he is not interested in me and he only after sex, right? I don't want a one night stand and I want to get to know him. However, he never gave me this chance and I will only go out with him if we become exclusive.

Surfer runs cold, should I contact him?   So here is the story. I went on vacation to Mexico. There I met a really nice guy called Thomas and we made a connection. We had a lot in common. We went surfing and we had sex on the beach. The next day he invited me to have dinner and we had amazing sex. He asked for my number and I went back home. One week later he called m... Read more...
sheera asked:

Surfer runs cold, should I contact him?

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Should I just leave her alone? Shutterstock_78059506 I met this girl online.  Our first date was to the Tx Film Hall of Fame awards after party.  It was the start of a very busy 2 weeks for me.  We had been texting everyday and saw each other a couple times.  She sent me a few sexy pics.  Then all of a sudden I do not hear from her anymore.  I was being a perfect gentleman with her.  Her ... Read more...
hrsedrivr asked:

Should I just leave her alone?

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    StealthSeductress Sounds like she is playing games. I think it is totally bizarre her mother sent you a message. Who does that? I don't know maybe a stalker girl who hacked her mom's facebook, lol. Maybe she is just stringing you a long to keep you for a back-up when the unavailable jerk she really likes completely disses her and she needs to make herself feel better so she comes back to you. Good old reliable. Do you want to be a back up plan or numero uno? Leave her a lone, because in my humble opinion, if you don't, you will be in for some serious drama. I still can't get over the mom message, which wreaks of weirdness and if her mother did actually write that note, imagine what she would do if you dumped her daughter, just saying...and the fruit never falls far from the tree.

  • Dr.Love Call her now If you like her and let us know the result!

Should I stay or should I go? 0 My ex-boyfriend (who is the father of my 2 yr old daughter) and I were together for 6 years. We recently split up a little over 2 months ago and things just seem to be getting more complicating with him. He recently starting dating a girl or like he told me he's just talking to her because he feels alone and he has nobody. But before th... Read more...
SimplyMe asked:

Should I stay or should I go?

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Almost 6 years, over. Shutterstock_73236064 I will try to make this as "in a nutshell" as possible. We went to high school together, started dating my senior year while he was a freshman in college. Went to college together, dated for 5.5 years. Very solid, and happy relationship for the most part. Broke up once almost two years ago because he didn't know what he wanted...came crawling b... Read more...
Toomuchlove asked:

Do guys go through weird personality imbalance phases after a long term relationship break up?

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    Martina C. So sorry for you girl. It sucks being in the position you are in. I think best you can do it step away and let him be. He is probably ready for new life and wants to push back those feelings he has for you in preparation for his departure. I've been in two long relationships and people sometimes just have this weird click in their head where they totally change perspective. Best you can do is pretend you don't care and become cold yourself for as long as you can to see if he will react. If that doesn't do anything to him, you will know you lost him completely.

Not going to see each other until Iron Man competition is done in three months Images?q=tbn:and9gcsjuclhxds_zwffnwtfqyydsahg1b-eucem-dhxnx6a4mkllmx9og I had just started to date a really great guy when he dropped the bomb that he needed to totally focus on training for an Iron Man competition and that we would not be able to see each other for the next three months. I'm not an athlete and wonder if this intense focus on training is usual. The race is intense. Maybe this is necessa... Read more...
kjdesigner asked:

Is it reasonable to expect an athlete to put me on hold for 3 months?

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Not sure what I want It's been almost a month since I entered the online dating world, I closed my profile after 3 weeks because I got tired of the same questions and same guys but I ended up meeting two people that I really like. I haven't seen one of the guys but the other one, we've been to the movies for the first date, shared dessert in the second one and l... Read more...
Online dating is actually e-commerce Online-dating   There are so many people I’ve met who said they could not stand online dating. They really hated it, to the point that they just had to kill their accounts. I think the entire model is not efficient because it’s not based on the way most people meet. It’s based on shopping online. Think about it… Interfaces are often based... Read more...
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